is it poss to link my nex extension wallet to neon wallet? shouldnt this be automatic anyway ?
They are two separate wallets, why would that be automatic? As of now, there is no way to link any other wallet to the NEX Extension wallet. Not sure what plans they have for the future with that, however. We may find out more today.
couldnt remember when i signed up if it was syncable or same pvt keys without checking
Well all NEP5 wallets are just viewing the address on the blockchain, so technically if you wanted you could log into NEON for example with your NEX Extension private key and see the same wallet.